Why Everyone Should Have Phone Sex Every Now And Again

We understand that sex is a physical act. But, classifying sex as physical only totally underestimated much great part of sex that we don’t see with eyes. The feeling of deep joy and satisfaction, moans of excitement, and the feeling of love and intimacy make up quite a larger portion of sex. “Phone sex” is yet another means of enjoying sex, without the physical aspects involved.

We need a subheading here. Maybe something like The Pleasure Of Phone Sex

Phone sex simply means to have sex while on the phone with each other. If you are new to this concept, you may be wondering how that is even possible, and if possible, how pleasurable is this type of sex. Phone sex, when done right, can be nearly (or even more) as pleasurable as physical sex.

We will be delving into how pleasurable phone sex can be and why you may want to try it quite often. Before that, let’s look at categories of people or circumstances that may call for phone sex.

Firstly, in long distance relationships or relationship where couples may not see each other that often due to their kind of work or location of their current residence, it would almost be necessary to make love on the phone. Secondly, blind-dating (being in a relationship with someone though you guys have never met) is another “opportunity” to have a phone sex. Thirdly, people who are “sociopaths” or those who simply do not wish to mingle with other people intentionally or unintentionally but feel the need for sex see phone sex as an “easy-way-out”.

Lastly, people who are not ready for committed or get “attached” to any “long-term” relationship can take the phone sex route.

This is not to say that a couple who are committed and see each other quite often or are even living together cannot have phone sex. Far from that! It is possible, fun and very “okay” to have phone sex with your partner (or even a stranger) at almost any time or place possible. Like many forms of sex, there are no strict rules or restrictions on who, where, when and how to have a phone sex. It is even helpful to have quite a number of it quite often.

We need a subheading here. Maybe something like The Benefits Of Phone Sex

The beauty and exciting thing about having phone sex is the power of imagination and visualisation as tools to help you climax. Another fun thing about phone sex is that, all the physical and psychological “blocks” that interfere with physical sex are removed to make way for openness and freedom of expressing how you feel. Certain things you may not do willingly with your partner for any reason can be done without thinking twice or worrying much about how the other person sees you. After all, they don’t see you physically and you are in it together to help each other orgasm.

A major benefit that phone sex can give you is the fact that is boost your sexual drive massively. By strengthening your imaginative muscles, you can easily get aroused and fantasise about your partner. Your total sex-life is bound to change for good if you have phone every now and then.

Nonetheless, a few factors may hinder your next phone sex with a partner if not considered carefully. First among these factors may be lack of authenticity of how you or the other person may feel. If you or your partner is not so much into is, it is likely that phone sex may lack its sense of passion. The sad part is, the other person won’t be present to assess or be assessed. It is necessary to know and have feelings enough for your partner to eliminate and read when they really are feeling “horny” for sex on phone.

Another bottleneck is the current environment you or your partner is in. Because it is more imaginative, most people feel a bit “unsafe” or shy to do it in places or times when a third-party may be around to see or hear them. It is only appropriate to confirm if you or your partner is really safe and ready for a phone sex before doing it.

We need a subheading here. Maybe something like Phone Sex Steps To Follow / Follow The Following Steps for Phone Sex… ???

So, what are some steps a phone sex goes through? Well, not that different from physical sex. This time, it is very imaginative and on phone.

  • First, you put your partner at ease by telling them how you miss them how you feel about them in the most sincere but low tone way possible. You could simply ask them to make love to you on phone.
  • Starting in bed or while laying down in a sofa in a darker room and/or with your eyes closed you begin to imagine your partner with you on the bed.
  • Start with some hugs and deep kissing and caressing, while you undress each other slowly and romantically.
  • You pleasure your partner and vice versa by with foreplay. Let them play with your nipples, lick your body up from your neck to your toes.
  • You want to point your partner to all the erogenous zones in your body and let them pleasure you just the way you want it without holding anything back.
  • Offer them a powerful but relaxed “blow job” and let them offer you the best “lip service” you could ever imagine. [It is even great when you practice it with a sex toy or just your fingers].
  • When your ecstatic enough, let him enter you in your favourite sex position. [You really want to physically be in this position while he penetrates you.]
  • Enjoy every bit of the “banging” till you really orgasm together. [If it is taking you some time, support your partner’s effort with masturbation or sex toys.]
  • Make sure you don’t hang up before you both climax.
  • After you’ve both had orgasms, you want to relax for a while while still hugging each other.

This blog post is related to the question:

Have you ever fantasised about passionate phone sex? Discuss what you would want to hear on the way to an orgasm. Make sure you don’t hang up before you both climax.

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